middle of nowhere

eating in a gotohan was such a nice experience especially with your close friends. there you can choose different variants of goto from goto with egg, with 'twalya', etc. eating the hot goto while having a nice conversation with your friends is really an extraordinary experience. i was enjoying my goto with 'twalya' and egg when one of my friends broke the topic about relationships. she was worried about what will happen to her and her boyfriend when college ends. she was asking me and my another friend 'dba?, dba?' that you can feel she's really into the topic. well, she broke the topic ryt? neway, we just answered yes, it would be very difficult. she said that her boyfriend plans to take another course after, and she's planning to migrate. she's wondering how she would handle it being away because of course when you're in a new place, i mean another country, you need to adjust with a new environment and maybe she meant that it would be a factor, a not so very good factor being away from her boyfriend which i can sense she believes he's really the 'one' for her. i tole her that it would be very hard to have a long distance relationship especially if before, both of you always see each other like every other day, and what more is that you go at the same class. my another friend agreed with what i said because he had experienced it with his girlfriend. his girlfriend was also from the university who graduated last june and i think they were also having problems about not seeing each other frequently. he resorted their problem by getting used to not seeing each other so that when time comes that they need to have a long distance relationship, it wouldn't be that hard for them. then my female friend joked about her going to medicine school instead of going abroad to work. i think she's serious about it, i didn't find it a joke although i said to her with a grin, "wow! i thought u wouldn't". she then continued talking what she think might happen in her future then she asked my another friend, how was her sister and her boyfriend doing... he said they already broke up just recently. with an awe and a look at each other, we both asked why because his sister and her boyfriend were already like years being boyfriend-and-grilfriends and i myself thought it will end up in a wedding. he said that her sister's boyfriend is very busy, toxicated by his work being a doctor and he said he feels that he's being unfair because of not giving enough time for her. gah... i whispered to myself. with that, everything had ended, all the invested emotions crashed because of that, lack of time for the other or vice versa. he said that they were still friends. after my friend ends his story, my female friend said it was very sad, i agreed to her but i didn't said anything. she said, "your sister is in the middle of nowhere", i thought she meant like everything was taken away from her and she had to start again with nothing wherein everything seems to be going good and before, you have this companion whom you share your life with and now, you feel disabled because you don't have that person whom you love and was a big part of you life. and that's when i finally reached and see the bottom of my bowl, my goto was gone and i realized i have eaten it all. wahehehe...
 
neway, my goto was really delicious and i realized that in a relationship, no matter what, if you're not really for one another, then just accept it and move on with your life... that's how life works... you can meet a lot of interesting people and be together eryt? but sometimes, separation is not an omen that you weren't really together, i mean some people do this to find themselves first, or because they have priorities, or sometimes because they have to leave for some other reasons like having a job and greater oppurtunities. if you're really together, you'll find yourselves together again in the future, love can wait as they say, for example you met that person again at starbucks or at luneta park then you talked a lot about the things that had happened in your lives, then there is again attraction to one another, then it came out that both of you were still singles, well, that could be an omen that you're really together, eryt? even if it didn't work for the first time or the second, in the end, it would still be you and that person. everyone has their person destined for them... so when you lose someone, don't be in the middle of nowhere, because there's such thing as destiny...

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